So not many know or seem to want to know that I'm as introverted as a sewing pattern turned inside out for stitching. And as many introverts I have few places that I feel well safe to relax and not feel the pressures of 'Socializing' or the draining feeling of being 'civil' to people I really would rather avoid like a modern day plague. One of these places is or rather SHOULD BE my home, and my computer or 'hobby' area.
Now you might be asking why the should be part of that statement, right? Well even if you aren't I'll tell you why I used those exact words. Because ONCE AGAIN my beloved husband did not really stop some neighborhood kids from entering our home after I had just said I didn't want them in our house. On top of that he's making excuses for the kid that thinks that when he wants to enter a person's house he can because no one around here knows how to lock a damn door or be firm with a kid. To make things worse my husband then tries to explain the behavior as in 'didn't you ever have a friend's house that you just loved going into because of all the cool things they had' I mean hello what part of my MANY discussions on how I didn't have many if any friends growing up did you suddenly forget in five seconds?
So now not only is my child not able to find peace in her home from kids that play to rough with her, or that she might not want to play with at the time they come over, but I seem to not be speaking loud enough for the husband to understand what I'm saying. And gawds forbid I yell to be heard because yet again I'm the bitch for yelling for no reason... and yet he supposedly has PERFECT hearing. It's just me that's making up that I said something to him.
Please someone just let me beat the shit out of something before I turn into the grumpy grouchy mother slash wife in the house.